Sunday, January 29, 2006
HAPPY WOOF YEAR! oh i mean dog if u all dun know wad it sup to mean haha~ yeap wish all be blessed with luck and prosperity~~ shi shi shun li! xing xiang shi cheng!=D
went out with my cousin's family to watch "i not stupid 2" which i think is a gd show! even tho the morale of the show is kinda cliche and stuff but personally, it kinda left some kind of an impact on me.. maybe it's because the morale the show is trying to bring to us singaporeans is somewhat related to what situation i think im in bah, directly or indirectly. Basically, the show is talking about the communication problem between the parents and their child in the societies nowadays. it's very true to an extent that youngsters find it hard to communicate with their parents not because they dun want to or wad, but because it's just so hard to open up to them because they will nvr try to understand the problem in the shoes of their child. all they ever think of was the ideal child they want to mould and judge the problem according to that stereotype. nothing else matters. it may be true that parents are actually showing affection towards their child in a manner, but it definitely is a very ineffective one. but then again not always are the children correct but yea since the show is mainly abt the way parents "care" for their child... oh well. it is just so hard to talk to parents bout certain issues that are sensitive, take for example u like someone and u are just so afraid to let yur mother know. for me, i know she will nvr sit down quietly and listen to me for any sort of rational explanations nor gimme me any rational solutions. the asnwer she will give me is deifnitely u cannot possibly like someone at yur age. it is just not right. and she wont bother giving any rational explanation neither. at most she will say it will affect yur studies... and i really do not think tt is and gd explanation at all, prefectly just a mere excuse. im sure tt is the case for most of the teens of my age range out there. that is the main reason why we will not tend to open up to them, esp about sensitive issues. it's just so rare to find parents who will care fot their child in the most appropriate manner.
... oop... din realised i just wrote so much on that yader yader. oh well, another part of the show tt left an impact on me is the part when the parents quarrel. i think i should just generalise that the part of the show tt left a deep impact on me is about the current parenting "techniques" in our current singapore context. maybe it's just cause im from a single parent family bah. time and again i always say that im not in the least bit affected by it. i am still who i am. but i guess it kinda affected me abit bah. tt why i have a weird resolution since then, which i wont shamefully deny, is to be a gd parent when i grow up, a really gd one. one that will not repeat the kinda mistakes my parents made, or rather... parent. bleghx.
Of course the show aint only about all this tt makes it a gd movie! it is also super corny la! the lead actor's "ah ma" so hip lol, even use the lingo that current teens use "SO LAME!" hahaha! of course got alot of other funny parts! cliche as the theme may be, it is still a gd movie in my eyes!=D so all ppl shld go watch it! lol.
ahhhh... how do i excuse myself from tomolo... really dun feel like visiting my paternal side of the family... not even in the least bit close to them...=( feel so fake going to visit them just for the sake of visiting...
~Ch3nDo|~
5:40 PM
// i felt!
